I found out about GAMMA through a counselor I was seeing around ten years ago. It took me several meetings before a "truer" me started to emerge out of the confusion I was dealing with.
Finally, I was able to say to myself: "Yes, I AM gay."
I separated from my family, then about six months later, I came out to my 13 year-old daughter and then to everyone else.
Things were a bit rocky at first, but over the last seven to eight years my relationship with my wife has become very stable, and we are closer living apart than we ever were living under the same roof.
GAMMA helped me find a way to become honest with myself, and that helped me become honest with others.